Tuesday, September 28, 2010

Yes, you can talk about Sex

Talking about sex can be a difficult topic for many people.  Even though we live in a tech savvy world where Sex is available 24/7, the topic can still be a shy place to visit.
Being comfortable to talk about sex can be linked to one's sense of self, identity, culture and family back ground.
I have had the honor of working with many people through my private practice and listening to stories about sex and  relationships.
Allowing oneself to talk about sex can help to break down myths and expectations!
 I can not tell you how many times people ask me "what is the normal frequency of having sex?"  Everyone is different and for many people it is not once a day, I kid you not!
Becoming more comfortable with the topic of sex can connect to feeling ok with your own body as well.
To begin with:
1. It is important to understand your own bodies (that means the bits and pieces of you)
2. Think about what you want to learn about sex.. anatomy, positions, communication ...
3. Do some research, talk to a therapist or your family doctor for advice and resources.
4. Knowledge is power -
5. Empower yourself about sex

Let's get started, shall we...

Couple's Therapy - really?


It depends on the needs of the couple for seeking out external support.  Some couples want therapy to better enrich their relationships.   Some couples seek therapy because they are in crisis and want a supportive atmosphere to gain insight and new strategies.


What to talk about in couple's therapy?
anything and everything!


communication
trust
sex
intimacy
children
affairs
addictions
finances
families


Individual Therapy - I'm good!


Individual therapy gives people an opportunity to explore stressful situations or re-occuring issues that they have in their lives.


what to talk about:
career
depression
anxiety
relationships
family
friends
communication
body images
self esteem
grief and loss

Sex Therapy - What for??


Sex therapy is an opportunity for individuals or couples to explore sexual issues and concerns.  


I hope this helps to understand the reasons for wanting or thinking about Therapy.